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Tuesday, 24 May 2011

I met Maria today..

Maria says, her husband loves her. She is married to Fakhar. He is a tall guy with a black mole on the extreme right of his chin. Today at 5.30pm, I saw Maria with her 1 year old son sitting on a bench in Jinnah Garden Lahore.
She seemed as if she belonged to a fine family. Her clothes Were finely stitched and she had a clear skin. The mother and the son would be looking good to the other people around but I dont know, something inside me just compelled me to talk to her. I hesitated first but slowly i went closer and sat on the same bench.
I said, " hi ! your son is so adorable :)
She said, Thank you.
Quite then she took out her cell phone and called in her husband Fakhar. Her husband probably cut her call. 
She uttered the word, 'AGAIN'....
And all of a sudden she shouted at me why the heck i was sitting there. Before I could say something, she started crying in helplessness.I didnt know what to do but i kept sitting there until she stopped crying. I then held her hand firmly and asked her to look at me. And once she did, i found a dead life in her eyes. I asked her to trust me and share the pain. 
And then she spoke ! 
What she spoke? I ll tell you.
Maria and Fakhar got married two years back. It was an arrange marriage for Maria as she had never seen him before her marriage. But Fakhar had seen her before twice. 
According to Maria, Fakhar doesnot keep any bad habits, he is of the sound mind.
Kabhi kabhi wo i love you bhi bol daita hai
Then she uttered, "Sana"
Sana has been working with Fakhar in the same company for about 6 years. Fakhar had told her about their friendship on the first night of their marriage. Maria was happy with the friendship. she had never questioned it.
But with each passing day, Maria found Fakhar engaged in texting someone all day long. When she asked whom he was texting. He would say, 'a friend' a0nd nothing else he would say. She believed and didnt take it on nerves..
But,
Now every day when she wakes up, she finds him texting Sana. The same pain she feels when he comes homes at 6pm and it goes on till 12am. She has been trying every method to get him out of Sana's magic but all in vain. She has talked to him many a time but he says, he cannot leave Sana for her wife's sake but she never asked him to leave her. 
She just wanted him give her a bit of his time and concern too. She has no issues with their friendship but she has issues with their texting all day long until they sleep neglecting Maria and her son. She dies a hundred time when she reads exchange of romantic messeges. She is trying being romantic with her husband for over 1 and a half years but her husband just says a THANK YOU in return.
 
It is being done with Maria and many others in a way or the other.
Now the question is; Why did Fakhar get married to Maria if he could not give her all the rights of being his wife.
We all have our personal lives but it just does not mean that we forget our responsibilities. Why don't these men understand that women are also human beings ? We cannot live an individual life as we are in connections, in relations
and above all in emotions. 
There are always two sides; right or wrong; good or bad. 
Either a person should hold a hand forever or he should never have even touched that hand. 
Either you do it or you don't. If you try doing it, do it completely. If you have doubts, don't dare think of hurting someone(woman) who has been created on weak line or perhaps on the heart line.
Maria was beautiful :)
I add, Sana is engaged to her cousin ----- so ??? :)
And I add, A man is always lucky :)
And I promise, one day Fakhar will repent :) 
I promise.... You'll see.... Maria will see....

2 comments:

Unknown said...

depressive

Unknown said...

not fair not at all :(

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